The numbers here are big enough to be worth getting right
A modest pension move can reclaim thousands in childcare and reinstate your allowance. If your income is variable (bonuses, commission, RSUs) it pays to plan the timing. Compare pension providers, or speak to a regulated adviser.
Why does earning £1 more cost so much?
Funded childcare and Tax-Free Childcare are a cliff edge, not a taper. At £99,999 of adjusted net income you keep everything; at £100,001 you can lose all of it. Because funded childcare for a young child is worth several thousand pounds a year, a small pay rise that tips you over can leave your household thousands worse off overall. It is one of the sharpest cliff edges in the UK system.
It is per parent, not per household?
Yes, and it catches people out. Each parent must independently be under £100,000. So two parents earning £99,000 each (£198,000 between them) keep full support, while a single earner on £101,000 loses it entirely. If one parent is over, lowering the other parent's income does not help — the over-threshold parent has to come down.
How does a pension contribution fix it?
Eligibility is judged on adjusted net income, which is income minus gross pension contributions and Gift Aid. Paying into a pension lowers that figure. Bring it back under £100,000 and your childcare entitlement and Personal Allowance are both restored. Between £100,000 and £125,140 the contribution is also relieved at roughly 60%, so it is unusually cheap. There is normally a term's grace before entitlement actually stops, which is the window to act.